my work, how INFJ work, strength and stress

I think some of you might must be wandering what do i work as .....some of you might have guessed but AFTER 6 Month probation I am confirmed ( halleluyah !) next is my medical appointment and then  comes the  letter of confirmation.this is so far as much as i can describe about my career some customer do ask  lot of question about this  new position that supposed to be our key and unique differentiation from other companies 

I Research in LONDON AND NEW YORK WHERE fashion is big it may sound common and you guys might hear from hollywood etc 

Categories : Unique 

job title : Personal Shopper /Style consultant/ image consultant

Shopping is a billion dollar industry and an absolute necessity in everyday life. Think about it. You shop all the time. Maybe you shop for new hip clothes, a new snowboard,  or a special gadget for your father’s Christmas present. Shopping is part of life, but it can also be a career – if you’re a personal shopper.
You may wonder what a personal shopper actually does. Well, it all depends on where you work. Many personal shoppers are self-employed, but others work for large corporations or department stores.

You may find yourself working for busy families, super-rich celebrities, senior citizens, department stores, corporate executives, image consulting agencies, or event planning companies. The market you work for, will dictate where you shop.
 The irony is that there is demand for quality image consultants has risen to a new high as new markets have emerged. The competition is fierce as a plethora of highly qualified candidates seek new jobs and need to differentiate themselves from the competition. Personal and professional development skills become critical in such a climate.  The definition of image consulting has broadened beyond “makeovers” to include behavior, civility and etiquette, body language, interview skills, communication, presentation, and personal branding.

so is like developing your own brand and image to the society.

Office: Department Stores ( all level)/office/ personal Suites

Description: Communicate with customers to help them plan their shopping needs then help them shop for their ideal products ranging from lifestyle (bed and kitchen) , mens or female (bags /shoes). 

Certifications/Education: No training or education requirements. Retail experience is necessary.Good interpersonal skills and since is a niche job ....the store manager tend to choose based on your character,style,  and able to work along in all department . 

Necessary Skills: high EQ , Stylist , excellent Communications,  proven high Selling record , and  EXAMPLARY Customer Service

Potential Employers: Retail department Stores (ROBINSONS , LANE CRAWFORD,Nordstrom’s, Bloomingdales), Corporations, Event Planners, Families, and Celebrities

How did I get the job?

I guess many people did apply but was not selected as they have many criteria that requires to become one. many even quit after a few month or during probation as they cant handle the stress (which is why I am quite stress now) . 

Why do I STAY?

I Have a strong manager who i WORK under with , she is supportive and my team member ( which consist of 4 )seem to like me  and we work well as a the only company which I feel is uniquely SINGAPORE 156 Years of history, I learn a lot and i Fell there is a career progression . I think even though there is politic (is not much) compare to short more positive points then negative....guess my guts told me to stay....

AS you know I AM INFJs 

INFJs are most comfortable in work environments where integrity, harmony and vision are valued.

Possible Careers

  • In or associated with the creative fields in jobs such as artist, writer, musician, composer, interior designer, or desktop publisher
  • In education or counseling in jobs such as teacher, counselor, life coach, researcher, psychologist, social worker, or librarian
  • Associated with religion in jobs such as minister or priest
  • In the Health Care field in jobs such as dietitian, nutritionist, physical therapist, speech-language pathologist, massage therapist.
  • In organizational development in jobs such as human resources specialist, or trainer

Ideal Work Environments

INFJs work best in environments where:
  • Work is values centered 
  • There is an emphasis on helping others grow and develop
  • They feel like they can make a difference
  • Work product is something they believe in
  • The work culture is harmonious and cooperative
  • Creativity and personal insights are valued
  • Workplace is quiet and they have space to work alone


  • Planning and business strategy
  • Sense of commitment and purpose
  • Developing and mentoring others
  • Creative or labor saving solutions
  • Designing and improving processes
  • Creating a harmonious workplace environment
  • Highly focused and organized
  • Works well on teams or as an individual contributor

Sources of Stress

  • Working in highly competitive or tense environments
  • Being forced to extrovert too much
  • Having to monitor too many details
  • Dealing with others who don’t understand their conceptual thinking
  • Trying to do everything – resisting delegation
  • Attempting to make everything perfect
  • Having to provide corrective feedback to subordinates