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Life

We make decision and all of us have a choice ..... whether is logical , sensible or humane or maybe just based on your gut feeling whether it will impact others or whether it will change ourself when people say it does not matter... it does matter... when we stopped....we become less care....we dont question ourself.... then you have given up.... complacent ... or take things for granted ...is not something you want to hear....repetadly... you cant blame others when things goes wrong.... and  you cant blame yourself ..... life is complicated... and whoever say is not ....fuck you.... haha  all I know I  never regretted my decision ...as there is no right or wrong ....better or worse ....is how we learn from the life , the mistake we make....the moment we create....the unexpected .... whatever life throws at me..... give it all you got....

To be ....

to be.... The genuine vulnerability who is not afraid of their feelings. It’s the pride of which they speak their honest truth, even if others may not necessarily agree. It’s the quiet resilience with which they withstand the worst storms and the courage with which they remain patient and persevere. to not care about superficial things like what you wear, how you look or how much money you make. But care about your heart, the life you has experienced, and the stories it has to tell. to appreciate how much value how much compassion and courage you have to offer the world. To be..... understand how fragile the human heart can be, and they also know the strength that it is capable of. These are the kinds of people who have often seen the worst of human nature, and  still remain kind, they still shine. They won’t let you down and will never give up on you because they believe in integrity and loyalty. to be.... old souls who have often experienced immense pain, hur...

who is better? between this 3 personality

me being a INFJ INTJs IQs are normally very high - apparently second only to INTP on average. This is because they have Introverted Intuition (Ni) at the top of their stack followed by Extraverted Thinking (Te). Ni collects information, relates it and categorises it into neat little boxes - pretty much subconsciously. Te then consciously makes clear, logical and objective decisions based on this information. This combination makes INTJs first class thinkers. Note: There is quite a lot of conjecture that IQ tests are mostly written by INTPs (the theorists of academia) and actually test how similar to an INTP someone is - so take IQ with a pinch of salt as measure of smartness. INFJs are at the top of the spectrum for Emotional Intelligence - referred to as EQ. This is because they have Introverted Intuition (Ni) at the top of their stack followed by Extraverted Feeling (Fe). As with the INTJs, Ni collects information, relates it and categorises it into neat little boxes - pre...

ideal home

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people may look forward with many things ....but for me I wanted my own home ....property I owned ...my save haven ...so some people do ask what is my home may look like ....well here are some example which is how my home will look like  color - monochrome / grey / blue  many painting and inspiration word industrial / modern / minimal / scandanivian  study/ work table    main entrance   living room / corner   living room my bathroom hope you are inspired ;-)

forgiveness

All we have is forgiveness Always walking a fine line To a love that would mean less All would last is a lifetime Always talking of weakness And the looks from a sideline All we have is forgiveness That I'm trying to find

the road

whether you are trying to quit something or when life just throws something at you.... when is unexpected.... when is difficult ...  the bigger the problem tend to think me the most important lesson  that will impact you as a person...... your thinking, behavior, and characters change.. which is why some people who are not strong with their core value.... change..... at the time ... the road to recovery seems like a long path... but is it impossible.... NO.... one step at the time.....even if you have to began from the beginning....as long you don't give up.... one day when u reach the finish line ....you will have a story to tell other.... to motivate and inspire a new generation ... that is when u make yourself immortalized by people remembering the act you have made impact on others.....

My style

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People do wonder what make stylist /style consultant different? are you good in wearing everything? well we all have different taste and I guess we all appreciate creativity and each style that we pick which we mould  mix, inspired as we grow which become unique and our own style which we are consistent and not easily influence by others .our core style remains. i am not talented but just passionate and curious i would pick Modern minimalist