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true love...and the ideal of love

Loving more than just the idea of yourself. A lot of people who think that they “love themselves” just really love a very particular idea (or set of ideas) they have about themselves. For instance: they love themselves because they’re fit, or because they have a certain job, or because their interests can easily be defined on a 140-character bio. This is not real love. This is conditional acceptance on which their egos thrive. The reason why people who love just the idea of themselves usually struggle in relationships is because they have yet to explore who they genuinely are (for fear of how much of their lives will have to collapse to do so) and so they choose relationships based on the idea, rather than the reality. 

ambivert

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are you  introvert or extrovert?  remember the quiz they always ask or how sometime we questioned our self. The answer is we are neither , we are called ambivent. An “ambivert” is someone who has traits of both an extrovert and an introvert. Susan Cain, the Author of  Quiet: The Power of Introverts In A World That Can’t Stop Talking ,  claims  she thinks ambiverts have the best of both worlds. I have to say: she’s right. Not that ambiverts are trying to claim a title that’s “better.” It’s just that there are many advantages to being smack dab in the middle. I guess working in my job does perceive as being extrovert personality but honestly it requires me use up almost all my energy when I am in the events( i enjoy it ...) but I love my quiet time too . reading, listening music  and my own personal time. I remember when you have that activity that required you to describe a person .I was described I am well balance which makes me  very easy to ge...

cut me loose

So this is what it is I'm just another kiss After you swore to me Now I can truly see I should've known when you came to me I had eyes on a treasure I couldn't keep Got so buried in love I can hardly breathe Fed you all of my heart And you swallowed me, now I'm starving Stop wasting my time babe No more changing your mind on me Cut me loose Do it for my sake I'll be better on my own Oh, oh, oh, oh I'm breaking the silence It's time that I do what's best for me Cut me loose How did it all begin? Baby I'm caving in Nothing I know is clear Where do I go from here? Got so buried in love I can hardly breathe Fed you all of my heart And you swallowed me, now I'm starving Lie, low and Give it my best not to fret as I go on Cause I don't want even a breath of your sadness To hope on. Take nothing more, I got no more to waste Moving forward, there's too much to face But I know that it's my only way so ....Stop wasting my time babe

interview in business time - local newspaper

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my second publication which i am honoured...especially at my local newspaper Robinsons The Heeren 260 Orchard Road AT Robinsons The Heeren, why lift a finger when its personal shopper service can do it for you? And it's not just for fashion and beauty items, but home and living needs as well. Opt for the service, and you can relax at the Personal Shopping Suite, nodding or shaking your head as you're shown the store's selection of bath towels and cushions. Personal shopper Shaun Lim says that over the years, the store has steadily built a large loyal customer base who enjoy buying things from its Bedshop department. "With their continued support, we thought that it made sense to provide them with an even-better retail experience by offering personalised Home & Living Personal Shopper Services to them," he adds. Face-to-face appointment Shoppers first fill up a questionnaire with their requests, such as finding items for a new apartment. Within the next th...

thank you for leaving me.....

i t has been almost a month plus.....that you parted your ways with me .....the funny thing is...I do still think about you....I am not angry, or sad....mostly disappointed that you were not that guy that I thought you were....our last conversation we ended in a bad note maybe because your new guy told you that he is uncomfortable or maybe he does not like me to be close to you. To me it does not matter......you have chosen him over me......I have stop blaming myself but instead the problem has always been you. I learn the way you have treated me was never love but was a rebound since your second ex ....which is like 2+7+4 = 13 years you been running and you have never take responsibility and this guy you with now....is sadly....still a rebound.....same goes to him.... You see love , it’s not going to be picture perfect. It’s not going to be all butterflies and roses. It’s going to be tough work. It’s going to be a lot of compromising. And a lot of arguments. But, that is what is go...

love....

https://fansoop.com/2016/04/pv-utada-hikaru-manatsu-no-tooriame-subbed/ very meaningful music video by utada hikaru from japan she never fail to touch me and the videos practically talk about moments that we enjoy with our love one that become just distant memories. maybe at times circumstances doesn't allow the person to be together because for whatever reason.  I still love all my ex....but can we be together...I say maybe ....because I believe if we fall in love before we will always be able to rekindled our love .... we just forget ....that's all....hurt maybe....but with love .... patient and forgiveness... the power of love can make you blind ....make you seem like as if you are flying and is a natural high that is unexplainable.... only love can do wondrous thing  but with such power it can destroy one person too so never play with people feeling

hows our life are just like a tapesry

After all. We have our own lives to face. But, still, it made me sad and pensive. I got another look at my own life. I saw the beauty of my journey and how very much I have to be thankful for. I have had a rich and meaningful life. I am so grateful for every experience. Not that it’s always been easy. Hardly. Frankly, there’s been a lot of pain. Bad decisions. Expensive mistakes. Words and actions that I regret. But, by the grace of God, I have made it this far. I have no complaints. And by the grace of God I will continue on. It made me also think again how much life is like a tapestry. mama kris told me this  As it unfolds in real time, it’s like viewing the backside of a tapestry. It appears to be nothing more than a jumble of thread—tangled, frayed, occasionally knotted, and seemingly random. Nothing really makes sense. It’s no wonder people lose heart, give up, and abandon their commitments. But things are not always what they seem. It’s only when you tur...